Finding that a former lover was ready to continue his life to pursue marriage with another woman,
can be bitter news no matter how you feel now about him. Even though you are well separated and pray the best for each other, it's hard not to feel messed up a bit.
So, how to bounce back and accept the fact with a roomy chest?
Do not blame yourself
When a relationship with a man in 20s or 30s, you would expect something serious and leads to pursue marriage. So, when you know he was engaged to another woman, would feel a little weird even though at that time you also have a serious relationship with another man.
But, that does not mean the relationship that you live currently disabled or you miss your ex-lover. Fair to feel a bit abandoned and replaced by others, and rarely there are people who feel comfortable with it.
Remember the reason for drop out
Deep in a heart, you may not really wish to be a woman who is on the ex-girlfriend today. Think about what are the reasons that had led to strand your relationship with him. Even though he's probably a great guy, he's probably not the right person for you.
Hide him on Facebook
Deleting ex-lover of friendships on Facebook may not be the right thing to do at this time. Instead, hide their profile from Facebook feeds. Thus, you do not need to see other people congratulate for him that might hurt your feelings.
Divert your mind
Instead of having headache thinking about ex-lovers who will soon be married, better do something to have fun and distracting. For example, plan a vacation that's fun with your friends. If you're alone, perhaps a holiday it be a good opportunity to meet someone.
Congratulate
When you have been able to accept reality and feel good about everything, congratulate and pray for the best for ex-lover. For example, via a short message in an e-mail indicating that you are okay to face their engagement. Thus, there will be no awkwardness about this in the future.
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