9 Behavior of Non Healthy Couples

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Pairs of healthy relationships do not always easy and convenient. Often couples conflict because of unpleasant behavior. Recognize behavior that is not healthy couples, looking for a solution, or try to avoid behaviors that create an unhealthy relationship.

1. Hypercritical
Critics who build positive impact on others, but not necessarily apply to couples. Being overly critical or to criticize the pair would only make him feel uncomfortable. So it's best, while the couple was asked berkomentarlah. Be kind to your partner more often to give a compliment rather than sharp criticism.

2. Career everything
Jobs and careers is important for everyone. Even couples also take pride in your success. But the defeat does not mean job time and attention to building relationships. Too often spent time at the office and come home late, over time will adversely affect the relationship pairs. Especially if you or your partner has been too often cancel appointments for two, for reasons of employment. The assumption that appears later is what your priorities, career or relationship pairs. After all, how important the work for you or your partner, time to build up relationships also need to be a priority. You certainly do not want to enjoy success without a partner where you share it?

3. Molester
Having an affair physically, generally would never be accepted by any partner and painful. But the affair was not just physical or sexual. In fact there is another affair that much more painful because it uses emotion. Ie you or your partner emotionally (feelings) with a third person. Even those who cheated will be more comfortable and much use of his time with the third person rather than couples. Although the parties' affairs also have a lot of time with his first spouse, but more quality time shared between the adulterous couple.

The affair became a source of conflict that sometimes unforgivable for a relationship in pairs, even if you or your partner trying to improve things. But such behavior is intolerable continuously, and need the efforts of both parties to repair and restore the romance and commitment in pairs. However, couples and also you do not want to be number two but still considered the best right?

4. Not keeping up appearances
Noting the appearance, style show or at least able to adjust the event will make the couple feel more comfortable, right? Being too cool, regardless of appearance, origin when choosing clothes with a partner he would make the distance. The clothes you wear determine your attitude, which indicates that the couple is important to you, so you feel the need to keep up appearances.

Not too difficult to figure out whether or not the couple liked the style of your dress. Notice the comment or response when you select or use a clothes. If the positive response he gave, the sign she liked it and maintain that style. If he keep his distance or deliver it directly that the pair do not like your style, you should try to listen and begin to mirror, if it turns out you're not quite stylish. Keeping up appearances, not only for couples, but also for themselves because clothing is not yet represent yourself?

5. Fussy
When your relationship and your partner closer, and the daily habits of each individual more visible. Not impossible, you and he's already looking like brothers. This closeness makes you or your spouse sometimes feels disturbed by his habit. If the couple began to fuss with your habits and behavior, the atmosphere became unpleasant and the relationship was no longer comfortable.

Instead, the couple talked about if it's a habit that you think have been very disturbing and annoying cause quarrels. If you still can not seem to be tolerated should be taken dizziness and let the couple live in his way.

6. Overprotective
Many couples experience this behavior. Characteristics, always jealous of the couples friends, requires you to spend less time with friends, criticize you because too often to shop, even to decide where you should go. If you already like this, the relationship is not healthy anymore.

We recommend talking to your partner, that women also needed time to herself with her friends. More importantly, women also can be controlled independently without exaggeration. Find a solution by changing the mindset, that you and your partner can not sue the time but could ask for better quality time together. Create a couple who grow with each other to give time for himself, and make their own decisions rather than regulate each other.

7. Judgmental friends and family
Have you or your partner complaining to each other about their friends or family? Complaints like this if not addressed with the wise will become a source of conflict. Try to understand that each individual or family has a different culture. Avoid confrontation with the people closest to the couple. Try to be a groove in an environment close to the him.

8. Keeping distance
Although a connection is made long enough, did not mean that closeness faded. Observe whether the couple had begun to keep a distance, as if no longer interested with you. Sign is no longer noticed as the first time trying to hook you, no longer willing to praise. In fact, the form can be obtained from the compliment of attention even though he's just saying pretty or handsome today.

Make your partner feel special if you want to continue to knit a healthy relationship. Look at his eyes while speaking, and do not hesitate to praise him. Just crank call in his spare time, could make the couple feel cared for and wanted, right?

9. Limiting the time together
You've promised to watch his favorite movie, and then canceled or delayed after so long. If this kind of attitude often happens in relationships, he did not pursue the sign of the time with you. But do not always suspicious, you should discuss whether it's he's busy or deliberately stalling for time.

Relationships can be destroyed with a small case that escaped your attention, and the him. So do not be a simple little comment about the looks or even a sincere compliment you just say how impressive today.


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